The Bitch Is Back!

Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Warning: Offensive language

When it comes to relatives and money, boy do they get damn narly. I bet she was waiting, twiddling her thumbs waiting for her father-in-law to die.

Let me tell you how selfish this bitch is. She constantly harassed my father-in-law for half of the money that is owed to her from her faither-in-law's estate. He wasn't even dead yet when she started with her emails and phone calls to my FIL asking where the money was.

It was explicitedly explained to her over and over her half of the estate money would not be given to her until her FIL passed away. For heaven's sake it was written in his will.

A little over a year ago, she got her son involved. He harrassed his Uncle (my FIL) and us because we own the house. Let me back track a bit. Before her FIL moved into a senior's home, he requested a family member move into his house. He had built it back in 1952 or so. If no one was interested, then it would have saled and the money be halved between my FIL and his SIL. We were interested and moved into the house in 2005. My husband's and my name were added jointly to the land title.

Now it means we owe her half of the assessed value of the home when we moved in 2005. That's fine, we will uphold our promise as it is also written in the will. She will get her damn money.

So after this bitch couldn't get what she wanted, she got her son involved. Her son sent us and his Uncle threatening emails like we want proof of the money owed in writing by so and so date or you will be hearing from my attorney. Blah, blah, blah. Bring it on you son of a bitch! It's written in the damn will that I don't have to give you the money until he passes and guess what? He's not dead yet!

Legally she has no claim to that money. She married into the family. That money belongs to her 2 adult kids. Who knows if she will give half to her daughter and the other half to her son. One time her son went to visit his Grandpa and bitched and moaned about it being unfair that we were living in the house for free..blah, blah, blah. Um..sorry, we're not living in the house for "free". We pay our property taxes, we maintain the house, we pay hydro bills and any upkeep that needs our attention and fixing. We're not living here free!

He kept making empty threats, undermining ours and my FIL's integrity. We ignored it the best we could. We knew he was bluffing. But you know, what a f*cking puppet he is for his Mom.

It got so bad that my FIL told his nephew that since his father is still alive and of sound mind he could change his will at a whim. Did that shut him and his Mom up? Hell No! He continued with the badgering. I remembered visiting Grandpa and he said to my husband and me, "You don't give that bitch any money until I'm dead."

Her FIL passed away this February. She came to his celebration of life, but she never made eye contact with us. She was an extremely cold towards everyone. Can you believe the subject of the money owed was brought up at her FIL's celebration of life gathering?? What a cold-hearted selfish, f*cking bitch!!

So now he's gone and she's wanting half of the assessed value of the house now. Excuse me? Sorry, bitch! That's not how it works. Yes, I realized the value of the house has doubled, but you're not getting what it's worth now you greedy bitch! That is not written in the will!

Did she think we kept our money on the night table waiting for her FIL to pass so we can pay her the day after he died? She sent an email on April 3rd asking for the damn money again. She called my FIL today, just 4 days later asking where the hell the money is. She wants a date of when this transaction will be completed.

This isn't even the whole story. She's been extremely nasty.

If I had it my way, I would make this a long-drawn out process, but I can't because she will continously harrass my FIL and I don't want to put him through that. He doesn't deserve it.

12 comments:

geekmom said...
April 7, 2009 3:58 PM

omg i'm so sorry you are going through that! my ex is like that. it wasn't a moment after his dad passed that he was demanding money out of his mom. he hasn't dared to ask me about any money since my dad passed last month. he wouldn't dare. he's an ex now (thank god)

tell her she can use it to pay half the estate taxes since they take 50% anyway. can't wait until she sees her tax bill at the end of next year (or whenever she gets it.)

Shelly said...
April 7, 2009 4:18 PM

Wow Miss S....that woman sounds like the Queen of the Bitches for sure!

If you can, I would drag it out for as long as I could, just to get under that bitches skin. I would treat her just as nasty as she is treating all of you. Respect is earned and that nasty woman has NO respect for anyone. All that Bitch cares about is MONEY with a capital M.

I have a similar story: We are power of attorneys for my great uncle and great auntie...uncle died last June...so now we are taking care of my great auntie who is 83 and is still living in her house although, I have a family member going in there every day to check on her and to help her. We all take turns. Anyway, my one uncle marched down there 3 days after her husband of 62 years passed away and started taking tools, lawn items and other valuables out of the house, Auntie tried to stop him but it didnt work. Auntie calls me and I go over there and get into a major mouth battle with my other uncle about him *stealing* property from the house. I told him that when great uncle died...everything went and goes to my auntie aka his wife and that he had to bring back the stuff. To this day, that asshole has brought back NOTHING! I had my hubby change all the locks on aunties house so that the idiot cant go back in there again. Now the asshole is running through the family telling them that bitchy shelly won't let him have the things that my deceased uncle said he could have! WTH.....auntie isn't dead and she needs those things and second of all, uncle never told that liar that!

Lesson Learned: I think every family has an asshole that comes out of the woodwork when a family member dies.

Darlene said...
April 7, 2009 5:22 PM

I agree with what Shelly said about everyone having one when a family member dies. They are all sweet and sugar until then and the true colors then come out.

Can you not go to your lawyer and have some kind of a harrasment suit put against her? She really isn't entitled to anything if it should go to her two adult kids. It takes a while sometimes to settle an estate. I would be talking to my lawyer and putting some kind of halt on her big time.

I wish you luck and hope you don't let this drive you crazy. I know its difficult but you know where I am if you need to vent. I am a good listener.

Hugs

Tammy said...
April 8, 2009 6:35 AM

Oh wow Sophia...I'm so sorry you are going through this. :(

I agre with Darlene...a restraining order or something?

Well....when my Mom passed away, there was 1 family member that showed his a**...it was my BIL. However it wasn't over money...she didn't have any. lol

You are in my thoughts Sophia.

Sandie said...
April 8, 2009 9:33 AM

I also agree with Shelly that every family has a member or members like this. I don't know what it is that makes some people feel like they are owed money or property because a family member dies. I am sorry but just because a person is related to someone doesn't mean that they should get anything.

Sophia said...
April 8, 2009 10:58 AM

Thank you for all of your replies Ladies.

I know my FIL would want this to end as soon as possible and I understand his position. He had dealt with her and her son far too long and endure this any longer would certain put a huge burden on his health.

On the other hand, I would love to delay this because she's being such a nasty, moaning and groaning bitch. The louder she whines, the longer I will take, but I can't do that to my FIL.

She has my email address and if she wants to get updates from me then she can get in contact with me instead of going through my FIL. For her sake it's better for her to deal with my FIL than me or my husband at this point.

After this is over and done, we're done with her. She's not family to us or her son. I don't have anything against her daughter. Hubby and I don't really know her and the first time I met her was at her Dad's memorial service!

Forget registered mail. If the bitch wants the money so damn bad, she can take the ferry over and pick it up her damn self!

Shelly said...
April 9, 2009 1:54 PM

Wasn't there a rock song years ago called "The Bitch is Back?"

If so...perhaps we should locate a copy of that LOL

Sophia said...
April 9, 2009 2:02 PM

Elton John, wasn't it?

Denise Willms said...
April 9, 2009 3:09 PM

Sophia, I just nominated your blog for the Attitude of Gratitude award http://wahm-articles.com/blog/2009/04/attitude-of-gratitude-award/ I'm grateful for a place where women can vent their frustrations, tell it like it is, and find people who understand! I hope you'll accept.

Marjorie & Maureen said...
April 9, 2009 7:37 PM

What a nasty woman. Can't believe people act like this over money...and before your relative passes. that's why folks have brawls at weddings and funerals because of SOBs like that.

Sorry you have to go through this.

Maureen

Sophia said...
April 9, 2009 10:15 PM

Denise,

Thank you again for nominating our blog and my health blog. You are amazing.

Maureen,

Thank you for your words. It's always money that breaks fmailies apart. People just never learn. This whole ordeal will most likely wrap up in a couple of weeks and then I will never have to deal with her ever again because she will be out of our lives.

This is the last straw. I can't forgive what she put my FIL and us through.

Ang said...
April 23, 2009 9:49 AM

Horrible! Gotta love self-righteousness. UGH!

Reminds me of this post:
http://angryangela.blogspot.com/2009/04/rant-41-your-will-youre-dead-we-dont.html